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1 year ago

12 Reasons Why A Relationship Might Not Be The Right Move For You Right Now (second part)

8. You have wanderlust and can’t imagine another winter in this sleepy chemical water chiller town.Maybe you feel a calling for new scenery or maybe a job transfer is on the horizon. If there is a possibility you may move in the next few years you should wait to have a relationship.If you’re in a relationship and your partner does not express excitement over the possibility of a move, you should have a serious discussion about your future. If you are not on the same page,cooling tower cutting ties may be the best case scenario.

9. Your theme song is I’m so Lonesome I Could Cry.Many people jump into a relationship chiller parts because they don’t like being alone. This is no reason to start a relationship or to remain in one that isn’t right. Being in a relationship does not make a happier life and sometimes it does just the opposite. It’s Industrial chiller important to love when you are ready, not because you are alone.Lonely people tend to justify relationships that are not healthy for them or their partner.

10. You’re five year plan includes working your way air cooled chiller from your cubicle to the penthouse.Relationships are a full time job. If you are on a career fast track, realistically you may not have time for a relationship. Getting involved before you are ready will cause conflict within yourself and within your relationship.Wait until you have time to spend on a relationship before diving into one. Things will happen the way they are supposed to and you will know when the time is right.

11. You want to keep your cake and eat it too.If you are not ready chiller to fully commit heart and soul to one person it’s not time. Too often we are not over past loves or are interested in two people at the same time.If you are conflicted and still have feelings for someone, you should consider dating and developing friendships, but wait until you have resolved the conflicts in your heart before you commit to anyone. Your indecisiveness should not be a reason to break another’s heart.

12. You want your Facebook status to read something other water cooled chiller than “it’s complicated”.All of your friends have found “the one” and you haven’t. This can make you feel pressured to find someone so you don’t feel like an outcast.Many times, this sets up conditions for an unhealthy relationship by trying too hard to be in that relationship.

You should be with someone because you enjoy being with that water cooled glycol chiller person. If you try too hard to have a relationship, Relationships are hard work. If you are not in a place where you are emotionally secure in yourself and have the time to spend on a relationship it is probably not the right time in your life to be in one. Timing is everything and just because the time is not right at the moment, doesn’t mean it will screw chilleralways be that way.When the time is right, the relationship will find you.


1 year ago

facebook

 

Jemma Rogers, 30, a holistic therapist,chiller from Lewisham, south-east London, set up a profile on the social network in 2008.

Wanting to avoid annoying friend requests from old friends and water chiller strangers, she created the profile under the pseudonym Jemmaroid Von Laalaa.

But last month she got a message from Facebook asking her to send identification to prove it was a genuine name and account.

Confused but worried she'd be locked out, Jemma admits she desperately tried to photoshop her bank cards to prove that was her real name.

One day later, Jemma's account was suspended and she couldn't get in.

She emailed Facebook explaining what she'd done and sent over her real ID - begging them to let her back in.But she was told they could not confirm her identity and her account was suspended.
In a desperate bid to get the profile back, she changed her name by deed poll and is now officially Ms Von Laalaa.What's more, despite her extreme efforts, she's still locked out of her account even after sending over her new ID to Facebook.Jemma, who's single, said: "I know I've been a completely moron, but Facebook are being ridiculous. I've been locked out of my account for five weeks now and have lost all of my photos, messages and precious memories"So many people set up accounts in fake names so random people can't add them or so they don't have to awkwardly decline requests from people they know but don't want to be 'friends' with.

"But Facebook have been over the top, they should be able to tell it's a genuine account but just under a fake name, I can't believe I am being punished like this."Poor Jemma has even had to order bank cards and a driving license with her new name on them.Despite sending the documents over to Facebook, she has only received automated responses saying they will 'look into' her problem.She said: "I can't believe I'm stuck with this stupid name and I still can't get into my Facebook. "It's hard to speak to a human being as well, all I get is computerised messages back, it's so frustrating."It's ludicrous and I am embarrassed to tell people what has happened.

"What if a victim of abuse wants to have Facebook but doesn't want people to find her, so sets it up with a pseudonym? Facebook have too much power and it's actually quite scary."

Commenting on the news, a Facebook spokesperson said: “Facebook asks people to use their authentic names, as we believe this makes people more accountable for what they say. In this instance we made a mistake but we reactivated the account last week. We apologise for any inconvenience that this caused."”

1 year ago

Happiness is love

In June 2009, The Atlantic published a cover story on the chiller Grant Study, one of the longest-running longitudinal studies of human development.The project, which began in 1938, has followed 268 Harvard undergraduate men for 75 years, measuring an astonishing range of psychological, water chilleranthropological, and physical traits—from personality type to IQ to drinking habits to family relationships to “hanging length of his scrotum”—in an effort to determine what factors contribute most strongly to human flourishing.

Recently, George Vaillant, who directed the study for Industrial chiller more than three decades, published Triumphs of Experience, a summation of the insights the study has yielded. Among them: “Alcoholism is a disorder of great destructive power.” Alcoholism was the main cause of divorce between the Grant Study men and their wives; it was air cooled chiller strongly correlated with neurosis and depression (which tended to follow alcohol abuse, rather than precede it); and—together with associated cigarette smoking.Above a certain level, intelligence doesn’t matter.

There was no significant difference in maximum water cooled chiller income earned by men with IQs in the 110–115 range and men with IQs higher than 150. Aging liberals have more sex. Political ideology had no bearing on life satisfaction—but the most-conservative men ceased sexual relations at an averBut the factor Vaillant returns to most insistently is the powerful correlation between the warmth of your relationships and your health screw chiller and happiness in old age. After The Atlantic’s 2009 article was published, critics questioned the strength of this correlation. Vaillant revisited the data he had been studying since the 1960s for his book, an experience that further convinced him that what matters 
most in life are relationships.age age of 68, air cooled screw chiller while the most-liberal men had active sex lives into their 80s. “I have consulted urologists about this,” Vaillant writes. “They have no idea why it might be so.”

For instance, the men who water cooled screw chiller scored highest on measurements of “warm relationships” earned an average of $141,000 a year more at their peak salaries (usually between ages 55 and 60) than the men who scored lowest; the former were also three times more likely to have achieved professional success .

And, in a conclusion that surely low temperature chiller would have pleased Freud, the findings suggest that the warmth of your relationship with Mommy matters long into adulthood. Specifically:Men who had “warm” childhood relationships with their mothers water cooled glycol chiller earned an average of $87,000 more a year than men whose mothers were uncaring

Men who had poor childhood relationships plastic injection water chiller with their mothers were much more likely to develop dementia when old.Late in their professional lives, the men’s boyhood relationships with their mothers—but not with their fathers—were associated with effectiveness at work.

… to a straightforward five-word conclusion: ‘Happiness is love. Full stop.’?

1 year ago

12 Reasons Why A Relationship Might Not Be The Right Move For You Right Now

 

Sometimes it may feel like everyone chiller but you is in a successful relationship. I promise you, you are not alone. Whether you are looking for love or are in a relationship but worry they may not be “the one”, it could be the times not right for you to be in a relationship.

Here are 12 reasons why a water chiller relationship might not be the best move for you right now.

1. You are a hot mess and need a savior.You feel a void in your Industrial chiller life and you want it filled. You love the excitement you feel at the beginning of a relationship and convince yourself you will be happy once you’re in a relationship.The initial feelings in a relationship are short lived. Everything air cooled chiller is shiny and new but once the newness wears off you 
are often left with holes in your apple pie sky.Trying to fill a void in yourself with another person makes you vulnerable to getting involved with the wrong person. The only way you can fill a void in yourself is through fulfilling your own happiness.Work on finding things you enjoy doing without a partner. Once you can fill your own void, you will be ready for a relationship.

2. You are addicted to being the hero.You get involved with people who have issues. Maybe water cooled chiller they are fresh out of a breakup or have other problems such as drugs or alcohol.In the beginning, they rely on you and appreciate you. Your self-worth inflates with the attention. As they getscrew chiller better, they need you less and less and you begin to feel used.Self-worth begins and ends within you. Relying on others for your worth puts you at risk of co-dependency. For a relationship to work, both you and your partner need to be emotionally healthy.

3. You have a habit of picking people air cooled screw chiller who are wrong for you.You pick the wrong type of people to get involved with. Your friends warn you but you assure them you know best. It’s different with you because you are the one that can change the person your friends are warning you about.You won’t change them. Look within yourself to better understand water cooled screw chiller why your choices are risky.

4. You still put pins in a voodoo doll that has a remarkable resemblance to your ex.If you’re still fuming about low temperature chiller something someone else did to you, it is not a good time to be in a new relationship.Old lovers must remain in the past for a new love to have a chance. Not onlywater cooled glycol chiller will a new love get tired of hearing how you were wronged, but you are at risk of punishing your new love for something an old love did to you.Fresh love means fresh start. You have to forgive an old flame and let it go before you can move forward. If you are still holding a grudge, it is not the time to be in a relationship.

5. You think you like him and her.If you are questioning your sexual orientation you need to be honest low temperature srew chiller with yourself before you can be in a relationship. Trying to be in a relationship because you are supposed to be attracted to the opposite sex is not only harmful to you but it will hurt your partner.Happiness and fulfillment of life happens when you are true to your heart. You cannot be happy pretending to be someone low temperature screw chiller you are not and a partner will always feel like something is missing.

2 years ago

True love

My aunt died back in about 2003. She was eighty-four and so was my uncle. When she passed he was devastated. They had been married for over 60 years. We expected chiller him to pass on quickly after she died. He attended his church Industrial chiller more frequently and his mourning was nearly unbearable to witness. His only air cooled chiller daughter lived clear across the country so he had only the rest of the extended family and church family to comfort him.

My cousin talked him into selling the house that water cooled chiller he and my aunt had built together about twenty-five years before. It was very hard to part with the home they built together. He was going to move into an apartment, but at the last moment, my cousin and he saw a new house for sale, that was close to his business. She helped him buy furniture and a flat screen television. He had not watchedscrew chiller television for years because of his religion. He was like a kid with a new toy air cooled screw chiller but still grieved horribly for my aunt.

One day he called my cousin who was living in Texas and told her that he reconnected with a lady from a church that he and my aunt went to forty years previously. She played piano water cooled screw chiller and his church was looking for new music. Her husband had died about seven years previously. He said he just wanted someone to go out to dinner with and spend time with. We were happy for them but had no idea how it would turn out. They were both almost eighty-seven years old.

They were like lovebirds and spent as much time together as they could. They both had one child each low temperature chiller , she a son, he a daughter. She had a house that her father built for her when she got married to her first husband. She was content there.

The other fly in the ointment was that they were both very busy people. They both still worked! They were in their mid-eighties and both had their own family businesses of water cooled glycol chiller. She worked for her son who took over the family business and he had his own business.

The clash in their relationship came when they neither wanted to leave their respective churches. She went to her Baptist church low temperature screw chiller that she had attended for many years and he went to his, which was a Pentecostal. They decided to remain friends but nothing more. He was broken-hearted, but felt that his religion was the only way. She didn’t want to leave her low temperature water cooled screw chiller church and didn’t like the extreme of his.

Before too long they realized that they did not want to be apart. They would find a plastic injection water chiller new church together. They planned to marry. When he took her to a jewelry store and bought her a diamond, the employees were so impressed that they had a big write up in our own local paper, "'The Truth' for Valentines' Day." They prepared for their wedding. They moved the wedding date up because neither wanted to wait any longer to "be together," and it was not proper to "be together" without being married.

They got married in her house, where they decided they would live. It was such a beautiful refreshing Brewery/beverage glycol chiller thing to see, two people who you would have thought had pretty much lived their lives, were beginning a new Food water chiller one together. I have never seen my uncle happier. He is still in love and she loves him as much as he loves her.

2 years ago

True love

2 years ago

The roses from heaven

Red roses were her favorites, her name was also Rose. And every year her husband sent them chiller, tied with pretty bows. The year he died, the roses were delivered to her door. The card said, "Be my Valentine", like all the years before.
Each year he sent her water chiller roses, and the note would always say, "I love you even more this year than last year on this day." "My love for you will always grow, with every passing year."

She knew this was the last time that the Industrial chiller roses would appear.
She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day. Her loving husband did not know that he would pass away. He always liked to do things early, way before the time. Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine.


She trimmed the stems, and placed them in a very special Industrial chiller vase. Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face. She would sit for hours in her husband's favorite chair, While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.


A year went by, and it was hard to live without her mate, With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate. Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before, The doorbell rang, and there were air cooled chiller roses, sitting by her door.She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock. Then, went to get the telephone to call the florist shop. The owner answered and she asked him if he would explain, Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?"I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago," The owner said, "I knew you'd call and you would want to know. The water cooled chiller flowers you received today were paid for in advance. Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance.


There is a standing order that I have on file down here, and he has paid, well in advance, you'll get them every year. There also is another thing that I think you should know. He wrote a screw chiller special little card. . . he did this years ago.


Then, should ever I find out that he's no longer here, That's air cooled screw chiller the card. . . that should be sent to you the following year." She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing hard. Her fingers shaking as she slowly reached to get the card.Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note. Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote . . ."Hello, water cooled screw chiller my love, I know it's been a year since I've been gone, I hope it hasn't been too hard for you to overcome.


I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real. For if it were the other way, I know how I would feel. The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life. I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife.You were low temperature chiller my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it's only been a year, but please try not to grieve. I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.


When you get these water cooled glycol chiller roses, think of all the happiness that we had together and how both of us were blessed. I have always loved you and I know I always will. But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still.


Please. . . try to find happiness, while living out your days. I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways. The low temperature srew chiller roses will come every year and they will only stop when your door's not answered when the florist stops to knock.
He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out. But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt to take the low temperature screw chiller roses to the place where I've instructed him. And place the roses where we are, together once again."

2 years ago

palm-forward "V" sign

The palm-forward "V" sign, formed by raising and spreading the first two fingers, has three different meanings in American culture.
The most water chiller popular meaning of the "V" sign was invented in 1941 by a Belgian, Victor De Lavalaye. Wanting a symbol for resistance to the Nazi occupation, he came up with the single letter "V", which stood not only for his own first name, but also for air cooled chiller English victory, Flemish virijheid, and French victoire. The symbolism of the screw chiller sign spread very quickly, and Winston Churchill used it constantly in public appearance. Thus throughout the 1940s and 1950s, the gesture meant simply "victory".

The second meaning air cooled screw chiller came in the 1960s. Because of its military implication, American antiwar protestors used the sign sarcastically against the arms, so that it became known as the "peace sign". In the 1970s, the "V" sign, which chiller had lost its military implication, was a common greeting among freedom lovers, acid heads, political radicals, and ultimately, young people in general. So by about the middle of the 1970s, it ceased to give clue to the user's philosophy.

The third meaning Food water chiller is the oldest and least common. American children jokingly put "V", which resembles "horns", behind friends' heads in group snapshot. They are unknowingly reproducing something that southern Europeans chemical water chiller would find highly offensive. This mischief, called "horns of the Devil", is a variant of the European "horns" gesture, which is obscene. Here the "V" sign means "Your wife has been cheating on you" or, when placed behind another's head, "His wife has been cheating on him.

In the United States, the gesture heat pump water chilleris typically given with the palm facing the viewer. The British use both this version and an older, palm-backward version; the latter is obscene in American culture, and corresponds to the American "finger". Churchill got some surprised stares in 1941 when, evidently unaware of the vulgar usage, he gave the palm-backward "V" to British troops. In England today you could have to be a social hermit not to understand the distinction. Astonishingly, however, cooling tower Margaret Thatcher repeated Churchill's error after her victory in the 1979 election.